My husband is an e4 we have 6 kids 2 of them live with us and we pay $860.?

Food Stamps they usually only send you when you are under the poverty line, therefore your husband is most likely making over the poverty limit and they won't just send them to you. But there are money management programs and readiness programs on base that you can talk to and they should point you in the right direction. They might not be able to help because Food Stamp are usually a state thing and if you are making over the state minimum you kind of out of luck. Good luck.