, how to get it started?

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been talking about having a lot, and i really want too. But it would be my first time.? I'm pretty young. How do i get him in the mood? I don't like Bj's so i wouldn't do that. He fingers me sometimes, and i'm pretty good at getting him in the mood for that. But how do i get him in the mood for ? Just roll over on time of him and kiss him a lot while he's me orr? Help!! Thanks