What do I do about my debt in divorce? Had to feed the kids somehow.?

In divorce there is "disclosure" - so there is no getting around the fact that this debt will come up at some point. BOTH sides have to come clean on ets and debts so get ready. A judge will decide how things are to be divided as far as responsibility and custody...if you are saddled with 50% of the debt and still cannot pay it, file bankruptcy.